Hi ning,
Did you ever get this issue resolved? I'm facing what I think is the same issue. At highway speeds, when pressing the engine, the car overheats, but around town it seems fine. What's really troubling is that when the car is overheating, even the heat coming into the cabin will cool down if I put the fan at max. What I think is happening is, under stress the WP impeller is slipping and not circulating much coolant. So none is getting pushed into the heater core either.
What's the real pisser is that I have the WP replaced recently in September of 2013 by Black Forest in Cary, NC. It's not that old, and I'm pretty sure they installed a WP with a metal impeller.
Anyway, I plan to replace the thermostat myself this week, but I don't think that will solve the problem. After that, it's back to the shop to get the WP replaced (again!).
If you see this thread, and remember how it all shook out, please let me know.
Thanks,
Brad