If you have Pepboys, NAPA, Advance Auto or Autozone close by all carry 5w40. Just wait and look for their specials or you will pay around $9-$10 a quart for 5w40. However, take a trip to Walmart and you can buy 0w40 in both Castrol and MobilOne for about $24 for a 5qt jug. Both of which are VW 502 approved. Downside, the 2.8 takes 6.5 quarts of oil, so on your first purchase you will need to buy 2 5qt jugs.
Being in New England with several months of cold weather it would be better to run 0w40 rather than 10wanything.
The most critical time for engine wear is at startup (cold). Do a bit of reading on this and i think you will find that a 0w or 5w rating will be better.
All this said you can run what you feel comfortable with. The Most important thing is to change your oil on a regular schedule within the manufactures recommendations.
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