ok, the b/f came home from work, and i got updated info on exactly what is going on....
ok.. he is telling me to forget the yellow dot in the pic. just forget the whole pic.
ok. he turned the lights on and the lowbeam on the front passanger light did not go on. he replaced H7, fine. He replaced the 9003, but no go. so, he took a live wire. he put it to the headlight switch in the dashboard. he heard the relay kick and the lowbeams went on. he took the live wire off, and no power again.
so, he is saying that somewhere between the headlight switch at the dashboard and where ever the power is supposed to come from... there is a problem. whatever is supposed to be feeding power to the headlight switch ... he doesnt know if there is another fuse somewhere or what.. but something is FUBARed from the light switch to the headlights. We have a Haynes Manual but it is not giving him what he needs to know.
he is now telling me that yesterday, the other headlight failed, too. this is news to me. but it seems that now... neither headlights are working.
there is no power from the dashboard headlight switch, to the 9003s unless he jumps it from an outside source.
sheesh, i am starting to understand what he is talking about... scary.